Adjusting to weight gain

These are the things that helped me adjust as I gained weight. Fifty pounds later, I'm in a much happier place with my body. Yes, really. I'm not saying the adjustment was seamless and I loved every pound of it, but I've adjusted to my new body and am more comfortable in my skin. 

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The 30-day Mindfulness Challenge

Lose 15 pounds. Lose 2 inches. Shed 5% of body fat. 

Most health and fitness goals are number-oriented. Which makes sense. With numbers, you can accurately track progress and measure your results. 

In my last post, I told you I was giving up on fitness apps and everything to do with health numbers. I had a case of number numbness and these numbers have nothing to do with my new health goals. In fact, the numbers were impeding on my goals.

So, what are these goals?

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I'm not using fitness apps anymore. Here's why.

When I was at my lowest point — in size and in spirit — I was a numbers addict. I tracked every calorie burned and every calorie consumed. This was before all the fitness apps that do that for you, so it was even more of a chore.

I had a little notepad I kept with me at all times. That notepad was my world. If I ate more than 500 calories, my day was ruined. But truthfully, even if I met my ridiculous "goal" for the day, my day was already ruined. Numbers ruled my life. (Which is kind of ironic because I'm a writer and now my world is words.)

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Bald heads and naked souls

My intention is to make this blog a positive place. But if it was just rainbows and unicorns all the time that would be boring and fake. (Well, if I really blogged about unicorns that would be pretty rad, but you get what I'm saying here.)

This post is about something negative that most of you have been affected by in some way.

The C word.

Cancer. 

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My new perspective on fitness feels good

My yoga teacher said something once that struck a chord with me. So much so that it changed my perspective on fitness. 

A student was really sore from the gym and was explaining the demanding workout regime that caused his bow-legged strut. "I stopped doing workouts that hurt years ago," my teacher said to him and the group. "I just reached a point in my life when I decided I didn't want to do anything that didn't feel good."

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How to be proud of yourself

If you read my story, you know I have a history with hating myself. I certainly don't hate myself now, but allowing myself to feel proud is still a challenge. The reason is two-fold:

1. Pride feels selfish. It requires filling up your self-love tank. It requires a certain amount of ego. It requires you to put yourself in the spotlight — even if it's only your mind's internal spotlight. You first. You.

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